:( I am being trashed in another tribe...

topic posted Tue, March 29, 2005 - 2:39 PM by  offlineQuirky Hari
by someone I don't even know. She and I didn't agree on something, and it's just become vicious. Now there's a whole thread of women talking about me (in a moderated that tribe that she *surprise* is the moderator of), personally, who know nothing about me. I'm freaking out a little. I've e-mailed her personally, but she just keeps posting comments about how she's `telling me off', and is glad to be bitchy to me..and a bunch of other women are glorifying being bitches..hahaha, isn't it all a laugh. Except I'm a real person, and my picture is up there, and it feels so vulnerable and awful.

And I would drink some tea, as this tribe suggests, but I'm craving black tea....and the caffeine would make things worse.

Just needed to spill some guttage:(
posted by:
Quirky Hari
SF Bay Area
  • Re: :( I am being trashed in another tribe...

    Tue, March 29, 2005 - 3:52 PM
    Here is a cup of decaf black tea for you, dear.

    Don't worry about that tribe! I've had people jump all over me for shit I've said that I didn't think was more than expressing an opinion, too. You know who you are and what you're about, they don't. Let them think what they want. They are nothing to you! When it all boils down, tribe is simply a diversion and nothing more. Don't take any of what goes on in here to heart!

    Here, let me refresh your cup!
  • Re: :( I am being trashed in another tribe...

    Tue, March 29, 2005 - 8:44 PM
    So sorry! here's some te AND some sympathy!
    • Re: :( I am being trashed in another tribe...

      Tue, March 29, 2005 - 10:06 PM
      Now she's just gone nuts and is telling total and utter lies. I don't understand...someone who calls themselves shaman this and healer that...and she's fucking lying about some pretty important things. I just want her to go away. Can I stoop to her level for a minute? Thanks. Excuse me, I'm about to yell...ahem... "Babe, Crawl back into the hole you came from! AND, for your information, being a Bitch is NOT the same as being a Strong Woman."

      Thank you, that was very therapeutic;) Now, I would accept that cup of decaf, but I'm going to bed and I'll need to pee if I drink it now. :)

      Good night everyone. Good night Carol. Pleheheeease let her have shut up by tomorrow.
      • Re: :( I am being trashed in another tribe...

        Wed, March 30, 2005 - 11:39 AM
        That sucks...I hate when people need to be assholes just for thier own sake. Reminds me of my childhood. Just remember, karma will get them back.
        • Re: :( I am being trashed in another tribe...

          Wed, March 30, 2005 - 12:39 PM
          Dude, that is so right on, I think.

          Thanks y'all for letting me have a space to vent.....and for your support.

          H
          • Re: :( I am being trashed in another tribe...

            Thu, March 31, 2005 - 1:10 AM
            shaman and healer?

            dude!! i'd SO pull the native card if my locker was near hers (!!) everyone gets shamed by the native-card~


            it's like the ace-card. only drunker. and with casinos~
            • Re: :( I am being trashed in another tribe...

              Thu, March 31, 2005 - 12:19 PM
              Don't get Fuckerpants started! Oh the shame and the burn he would supply! She probably has a dream-cathcer hanging on her rear view which is her stake in the Shamanism claim. Feh!
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                Thu, March 31, 2005 - 1:13 PM
                It's interesting you two mention the Shamanic part. I don't know why, but last night I just was so overwhelmingly sick of half the people in SF calling themselves shamanic healers I was just ranting about it. I mean, whatever, maybe you are a healing person to be around, and that's great...but why Shamanic? And I feel a bit horrible, because one of these people I think it really great. I'm just so f*cking sick of looking at people's tribes, and they're different but the same? I'm just jaded and pissy now. I don't even want to hear that people are `spiritual' anymore...the word just doesn't mean anything now that nearly everyone's using it. Blech, puke. Don't want to hear about burning man. Blech, puke. And REALLY don't want to hear about ethical sluts anymore. I'm not saying all these `titles' weren't at one point meaningful, but at this point, in SF, they're just....well, blech, puke. Even Goddess stuff and people saying things like `blessings be'. Frickin' blech puke.

                I'd probably love all these people if they were the minority in Iowa or something, but right now I just feel like all these words are creepy-crawling all over my skin.

                I'm horrible. Is there an I'm horrible tribe for people like me?

                Sorry, you guys are seeing a really bad side of me. Oh shit, sorry Rebecca...this is going to get Fuckerpants started. LOL
                • Re: :( I am being trashed in another tribe...

                  Thu, March 31, 2005 - 1:43 PM
                  Go treat yourself to something fun. I used to be fond of visiting the prehistoric fern garden in Golden Gate park near the conservatory. Pack snacks.
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                    Re: :( I am being trashed in another tribe...

                    Thu, March 31, 2005 - 2:38 PM
                    An acquaintance of mine is a yoga teacher. She bleats on about how spiritually self-aware she is, how spiritually centered she is. Recently she found a close friend of mine on another networking site and asked him to join her network. They had dated briefly, in the 80s even, and had had their ups and downs (in the ensuing DECADES) but were supposedly up and had mended fences. He obliged and a few weeks later got a message from a third party on the site, a former stripper friend of his from LA. Totally out of the blue, she'd been getting some really nasty comments from our yoga master pal!

                    Keep both eyes on the ninnies who think they've got their shit together I guess is what I'm trying to say here.
                • Re: :( I am being trashed in another tribe...

                  Sun, April 3, 2005 - 4:48 PM
                  >>Even Goddess stuff and people saying things like `blessings be'. Frickin' blech puke.<<

                  Hear hear! And can we toss in the groovies who sign everything "Namaste"? That's a special word--could we please not sign our cable TV bills with it?

                  QH: Can you tune out that tribe? Just stop checking in? Start your own moderated tribe, invite the people you like and kiss those pretentious freakass be-atches goodbye!
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                  Re: :( I am being trashed in another tribe...

                  Thu, April 5, 2007 - 4:18 AM
                  This reminds me so much of the super-holy Christian leaders who spout about having all the answers and then we all find out they're stealing the money that the people sent to stay out of the "hell fires". All this meanness doesn't sound too self aware or at peace.
  • Re: :( I am being trashed in another tribe...

    Tue, May 16, 2006 - 11:03 PM
    I think I may be in the same boat with you soon. i'm being attacked again on the dogzone tribe becuase I might not nueter my dog. Amazing how people like to tell other people what to do with thier lives or the lives of their pets and children.

    I want to drink some more of my nice green tea here but I'm afraid I'll get all wired and start stressing on the tribe issue. It's funny how poeple can be such inconsiderate pricks online.
  • Re: :( I am being trashed in another tribe...

    Fri, July 21, 2006 - 12:47 PM
    They still messin with you?
    • Re: :( I am being trashed in another tribe...

      Sat, July 22, 2006 - 2:17 AM
      actually the admin finally came in and told people to back off or she would start banning. that was a nice gesture but i still can't understand why people are so rude.

      not sure if you meant me btw but that's my sit.
      • Re: :( I am being trashed in another tribe...

        Fri, August 4, 2006 - 2:01 PM
        Something about the message board environment just seems to invite rudeness. Often two or three users (or more) will gang up on one, as we've seen in this thread. Most all of us have experienced it, myself included. The most obvious solution is to just turn off the computer, go out and ride a bike, see a film, etc, enjoy life.

        Such personal attacks are absolutely infuriating and frustrating, but it helps to remember that they are actually nothing more than bit streams on a data server somewhere, then turn off the computer, go have some real fun.

        In almost all cases, these are imaginary friends (and enemies :)

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